Parent Resource Guide

Signs of Dyslexia in Children: What Every Parent Should Know

You know something is different about how your child reads. Trust your instincts. This guide will help you recognize the signs and understand what to do next.

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You Are Not Alone

If you are reading this, you have probably noticed something about your child's reading that concerns you. Maybe homework takes hours. Maybe there are tears. Maybe the school says "wait and see" but your gut tells you something different.

Dyslexia affects 1 in 5 people - that is 20% of the population. It is the most common learning disability, yet it often goes unidentified for years. The good news? When identified early and addressed with the right intervention, children with dyslexia can become successful, confident readers.

Signs by Age

Recognizing Dyslexia at Every Stage

The signs of dyslexia look different at different ages. Select your child's age group to see the specific red flags to watch for.

3-5

Preschool (Ages 3-5)

Early warning signs before formal reading instruction

Trouble learning nursery rhymes

Cannot remember or repeat simple rhymes

Difficulty with rhyming games

Cannot identify words that rhyme (cat/hat)

Late talking or unclear speech

Delayed speech development or pronunciation difficulties

Mispronounces familiar words

"Aminal" for animal, "pasghetti" for spaghetti

Cannot recognize letters in their name

Struggles to identify letters they see daily

Trouble learning the alphabet

Difficulty memorizing letter names and sounds

Difficulty remembering sequences

Days of the week, counting, or following multi-step directions

Family history of reading difficulties

Parent, sibling, or close relative with dyslexia

K-2

Early Elementary (K-2nd Grade)

Signs during beginning reading instruction

Cannot blend sounds together

Knows c-a-t sounds but cannot say "cat"

Guesses at words from pictures

Relies on illustrations rather than decoding

Reverses letters (b/d, p/q)

Confusion persists past mid-first grade

Reads a word correctly, then not

Reads "the" on one page, misses it on the next

Very slow, labored reading

Sounds out each word, even simple ones

Complains reading "hurts my eyes"

Rubs eyes, headaches after reading

Cannot remember sight words

Words like "the," "said," "was" do not stick

Bizarre spelling attempts

Spellings do not match sounds in the word

3-5

Upper Elementary (3rd-5th Grade)

Signs as reading demands increase

Avoids reading aloud

Makes excuses, acts out, or becomes invisible

"I hate reading"

Consistent avoidance of all reading activities

Homework takes forever

3+ hours for what should take 30 minutes

Poor spelling despite studying

Studies for spelling test, still fails or forgets by next week

Cannot read multi-syllable words

Struggles with words like "important" or "remember"

Reading comprehension problems

Can read the words but does not understand the passage

Writing avoidance

Short answers, minimal effort, or refusal to write

Falling behind in other subjects

Science, social studies affected by reading difficulties

6+

Middle School and Beyond

Signs that may have been missed earlier

Reads very slowly

Cannot complete reading assignments in time

Difficulty with foreign languages

Struggles exceptionally with Spanish, French, etc.

Poor written expression

Great ideas verbally but cannot get them on paper

Dreads tests with reading

Extreme anxiety about standardized tests

Word retrieval difficulties

"Tip of the tongue" phenomenon, uses "thing" often

Inconsistent spelling

Same word spelled differently in one paper

Low self-esteem about academics

"I'm stupid" or "I'm just not a reader"

Exhausted after school

Reading requires so much effort it is draining

Get the Facts

Common Misconceptions About Dyslexia

Misunderstanding dyslexia can delay getting your child the help they need. Here is the truth about some common myths.

Myth

"Dyslexia means seeing letters backwards."

Fact

Dyslexia is not a vision problem. It is a language-based learning difference that affects how the brain processes the sounds of language (phonological processing).

Myth

"Smart kids cannot have dyslexia."

Fact

Dyslexia occurs across all intelligence levels. Many people with dyslexia are highly intelligent and creative. Intelligence and reading ability are separate.

Myth

"They just need to try harder."

Fact

Children with dyslexia often work harder than their peers. They need different instruction, not more effort. Structured literacy addresses how their brains actually learn.

Myth

"Wait and see - they'll catch up."

Fact

Research shows waiting allows children to fall further behind. Early intervention is critical. The brain is most responsive to intervention in early years.

Myth

"More reading practice will fix it."

Fact

Practicing the wrong way makes it worse. Children with dyslexia need explicit, systematic instruction in phonological awareness, phonics, and structured literacy - not just more of the same.

Next Steps

What To Do If You Recognize These Signs

Recognizing the signs is the first step. Here is what to do next.

1

Trust Your Instincts

You know your child best. If you sense something is not right with their reading, do not let anyone talk you out of seeking answers. Parent intuition is powerful.

2

Do Not Wait and See

Research is clear: early intervention leads to the best outcomes. Every year of struggling creates more gaps to fill and more damage to your child's confidence.

3

Get a Professional Evaluation

A comprehensive evaluation identifies exactly which skills are missing and creates a roadmap for intervention. This is not a school screening - it is a thorough assessment of all literacy foundations.

4

Find the Right Intervention

Children with dyslexia need structured literacy instruction - explicit, systematic, multisensory teaching that addresses phonology, phonics, morphology, syntax, and semantics.

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Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Early signs include difficulty learning the alphabet, trouble rhyming words, mispronouncing familiar words, difficulty learning new words, and delayed speech development. In preschool-age children, watch for trouble recognizing letters in their name, difficulty with nursery rhymes, and problems remembering sequences like days of the week.

Signs your child may have dyslexia include: struggling to sound out words, reading slowly compared to peers, avoiding reading, poor spelling despite studying, reversing letters past age 7, difficulty rhyming, and being smart but struggling with reading. A professional dyslexia evaluation can provide definitive answers and a clear intervention plan.

Letter reversals (like b/d or p/q) are common in children under age 7 as they learn to read. However, if letter reversals persist past age 7-8, or are accompanied by other reading difficulties, it may be a sign of dyslexia and warrants professional evaluation.

When children say they hate reading or consistently avoid it, this is often because reading is genuinely difficult and frustrating for them. This is a significant red flag for dyslexia. Children with unidentified dyslexia experience reading as stressful and exhausting, leading to avoidance behaviors. Getting a professional evaluation can identify the root cause and lead to effective intervention.

Difficulty blending sounds (phonemes) together to form words is one of the hallmark signs of dyslexia. This skill, called phonemic blending, is essential for decoding words. Children with dyslexia often struggle with phonological awareness skills, which includes blending, segmenting, and manipulating sounds. This can be addressed through structured literacy intervention.

Yes, dyslexia has a strong genetic component. If a parent or sibling has dyslexia, a child has a 40-60% chance of also having dyslexia. Family history of reading difficulties, late talking, or learning disabilities should heighten awareness of potential dyslexia signs.

Dyslexia is a lifelong neurological difference - children do not outgrow it. However, with proper intervention using structured literacy approaches, children with dyslexia can learn to read successfully and develop strong compensatory strategies. Early identification and intervention lead to the best outcomes.

Children can be screened for dyslexia risk factors as early as age 4-5, and comprehensive evaluations are typically done starting at age 6-7. However, it is never too late to be tested for dyslexia. Adults can also be evaluated and benefit from intervention.

No. Research strongly shows that early intervention is critical for dyslexia. The "wait and see" approach often allows children to fall further behind while developing anxiety, low self-esteem, and negative associations with reading. If you notice signs of dyslexia, seek an evaluation promptly. The brain is most plastic in early years, making intervention most effective when started early.

Dyslexia is a specific learning disability that affects the brain's ability to process language, particularly the sounds of language (phonological processing). A slow reader might simply need more practice, while a child with dyslexia has a neurological difference that requires specialized instruction. Children with dyslexia often show average to above-average intelligence but struggle specifically with reading, spelling, and writing.

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